The 3 conditions that sociologists consider crucial to making close friends: 1
The 3 conditions that sociologists consider crucial to making close friends:
1. Proximity
2. Repeated, unplanned interactions
3. A setting that encourages people to let their guard down and confide in each other
As an adult, this combo is hard to find.
Many common social situations like work, church, and meetups offer 1 and 2. But few situations provide all 3.
I feel lucky to have made many friends at conferences. I don't see these friends often. Unfortunately, 1 doesn't apply.
As I get older, I value my existing friendships more, though ironically, I have less time to devote to them.
A buddy recently said "I value our friendship". May sound cheesy, but it meant a lot to me. Highly recommend telling people they're appreciated. 👍
I'll close with a relevant quote.
Friendships are fragile, but worth it.
